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Victor D. Sandiego's avatar

What a beautiful piece. Thank you Trilety. The poetic sounds of Spanish and the poetic sounds of your writing come together for me as a romantic celebration of life mingled with the touching remembrance of loss that leaves us both thankful and wistful.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Your comments are beautiful pieces of writing in themselves, so thank YOU - for commenting, reading, and writing

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Dane Benko's avatar

One for body and one for language

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Ah good point, we will see if the Fearless Leader is in agreement ha - Thanks for reading, Dane!

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Edward Rooster's avatar

What a beautiful meditation on an intimate love language in every sense of the idea.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Thanks so much for reading and leaving such a meaningful comment

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Samantha Childress's avatar

This was breathtaking.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Aw thank you, Sam - means a lot

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Stephanie Molchan's avatar

What a ride you just took me on! Your pace reminds me of one of my writing heroes: the late, great Tom Wolfe.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Wow, thank you very much!

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Vanechka's avatar

Beautiful! The way you weaved together love, loss and language is remarkable. Thank you for writing this.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Thank you so much for your comment, Vanya.

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Yuelian Hong's avatar

I loved so much about this piece, and yet somehow the line which hit me the hardest was:

"Juan was the abstract feeling of joy and acceptance."

...i can feel in my bones how true this is, not only from this essay but also all of the other beautiful words, e-mails, memories you've shared about him, in both english and spanish. i can see how much of his joy and acceptance has imprinted itself in you, too. 💓

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Thank you so much. I love that you can "see" him, it brings me great comfort.

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WhiteRose's avatar

This is lovely, Trilety. So thoughtful and generous.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Thank you so much!

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AK O'Brien's avatar

As a linguist and a polyglot, I love this so much.

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Trilety Wade's avatar

Oooo a polyglot, my fantasy! Thanks, Amanda!

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