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What a beautiful piece. Thank you Trilety. The poetic sounds of Spanish and the poetic sounds of your writing come together for me as a romantic celebration of life mingled with the touching remembrance of loss that leaves us both thankful and wistful.

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Your comments are beautiful pieces of writing in themselves, so thank YOU - for commenting, reading, and writing

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One for body and one for language

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Ah good point, we will see if the Fearless Leader is in agreement ha - Thanks for reading, Dane!

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What a beautiful meditation on an intimate love language in every sense of the idea.

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Thanks so much for reading and leaving such a meaningful comment

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This was breathtaking.

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Aw thank you, Sam - means a lot

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May 31, 2023Liked by Trilety Wade

What a ride you just took me on! Your pace reminds me of one of my writing heroes: the late, great Tom Wolfe.

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Wow, thank you very much!

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Beautiful! The way you weaved together love, loss and language is remarkable. Thank you for writing this.

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Thank you so much for your comment, Vanya.

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I loved so much about this piece, and yet somehow the line which hit me the hardest was:

"Juan was the abstract feeling of joy and acceptance."

...i can feel in my bones how true this is, not only from this essay but also all of the other beautiful words, e-mails, memories you've shared about him, in both english and spanish. i can see how much of his joy and acceptance has imprinted itself in you, too. 💓

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Thank you so much. I love that you can "see" him, it brings me great comfort.

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Jun 4, 2023Liked by Trilety Wade

This is lovely, Trilety. So thoughtful and generous.

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Thank you so much!

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May 31, 2023Liked by Trilety Wade

As a linguist and a polyglot, I love this so much.

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Oooo a polyglot, my fantasy! Thanks, Amanda!

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