One month and one day ago, I turned 50. Three weeks later, or ten days ago, Jim also turned 50. Individually, we are half as old as our house, or together, we are the exact same age as our house.
Dog Throat Journal
My friend, Deepansh, and I both have pieces in the latest issue of Dog Throat Journal. My piece is dark. So dark that one friend - after reading it - asked after my state of mind. So dark that another friend - after reading it - said, “I don’t like the way it made me feel.” I read it at a Femme Open Mic the other night, and it left the listeners a bit stunned, but I finished up with an essay about hyena clitorises from my book, which was met with grand applause. Deepansh’s piece, on the other hand, is not dark so much as thoughtful and trimmed with that sunrise seam of a new love.
I Won’t Keep You
Speaking of my book. . .I noticed this new review last night on Goodreads from Megan’s mom, Lolly, a writer and an amazing painter. I was always closer to Megan’s dad, and yet - after reading this review - I feel just as close to Lolly.
I Left Meta
Two, maybe three now, days ago, I deleted my Instagram and Facebook accounts. For eleven years, I was dedicated (at times addicted) to Instagram, while I used Facebook only for Messenger and to post items in our local Buy Nothing Group. But in an effort to live my political ethic, I am trying to slowly remove myself from platforms that fund or support that which I do not. And now Danny, my exclusively-Messenger-using friend of three decades, must use text to contact me. And now, the intention of photography has shifted a bit. Here are photos that would have been posted on Instagram.
~ until i have more to say and further to go
I left WhatsApp (don’t have facebook or instagram) and it meant leaving a chat group with my university friends who did not want to download signal. I felt both excluded and sad that they don’t think these things matter, but then all of the other chat groups with other friends did want to join signal- one even said- this is the unglamorous version of WhatsApp, and then we resumed our heavy gossiping, and all is well in the world. My university friends are kind but not important enough for me to not follow my ethical standards.